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Men should arry when they are young, and won should arry when they are young. This has been an ungg prciple st tis. Although it is now advocated to ge ctos and engagenew weddgs, pared to the 1960s and 1970s, it has bee ore xurio and the siple ctos of people no longer exist. I a fro Zhuzhou, Hunaalk about the weddg ctosZhuzhou.

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Matchaker es to propose arriage

When n and won reach the age e, their parents first fd a atchaker. Whechaker disvers that there is soone of appropriate agethe faily, they first unicate with their parents and then schedule a date te a bld date location, ually a arket pce. On the day of the arket, both the an and the woan go to the designated location, take a look at each other, say a few words, and show their cheerful personality on the spot. Generally, they will return ho and talk to the atchaker. After agreeg, the an will choose a date fagent (we call it Dgshi there). There is also a type that is favored by oneself or by parents, such as s. If they are reted, parents will entrt an acquatao act as a atchaker. In the 1960s and 1970s, any s got arriedrural areas, and the third representative of siblgs gettg arried was ore. This is called "new retives gettg arried with old retives", which is even ore joyful, but this kd of close retives gettg arried is still not good.

The e requires four kds of gifts, that is, a few pieces of cloth. Det failies will e da and da fabriylon socks, and those with poor enoiditions will e khaki cloth and tton socks. In this way, even if the e is suessful, the ango to the woan's ho and send so gifts to the woan's ho for the New Year holiday. Generally, the four kds of gifts are the sa, naly, the Begng of Sur Festival, the Dragon Boat Festival, the Mid-Autuival and the Sprg Festival. Meat, eggs, noodles And a piece of fabric, after a year or o, when both parties have no objes, the woan tells the atchaker that theycut the shoe saple (that is, the an tells the woan the size of the shoes worn by his faily). The an gives the woan so oney for cuttg the saple, which was only a few tens of yuan at that ti. The woao ake a pair of shoes for each ber of the an's faily and atch the with hand-ebroidered soles.

Preparation before and after arriage

A necessary dowry for won

Before arriage, the an gives the woan so oo buy a dowry. Dependg on the faily's enoiditions, hegive the woan three to five thoand yuan at once, and regardless of how uey she receives fro the an, these thgs t be allocated. e wardrobe or bation cabet, oable, four chairs, oable, one food cabet, one washbas rack, e wooden cases, one sall wooden case or leather case (siir to the rger travel case at present), o hot water bottles, cups and toothbrhes, au pots for boilg water, pressure oker and other daily ies, four quilts and a pair of pillows. Those with good faily nditions will be equipped with a n's bicycle, a seg ache, a bd white TV set, ari, et fao atter how uey the an gives the woan, the woan's parents basically don't e uch of the oney, and they return it to their daughter to ake ntaer oney.

What the an t prepare

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